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NEXT EVENT

BIG Winter Party, 11 Dec

Join us for our biggest event ever. Up to 100 professional and creative Londoners in their 20s and 30s at our East London venue. 4 experiential zones exploring different ways of meeting new people. Hosted by Adam Wilder, Rosy Pendlebury and Abbey Wesson.

 

Find the connection before you find the right words

At Shhh we find you can make more of a connection with others without words (to begin with). That's why we've created a unique dating format with

 

Flirting games, eye gazing & no talking

At our events you can expect a warm up to make you feel comfortable, relaxed and happy, followed by silent flirting games and eye gazing. Our excellent hosts will make you feel at home. 

 

Come see what all the noise is about.


Let’s get social baybee!

Our sister company Togetherness holds social events where you can meet new people and explore new ways of connecting to yourself and others 

 
  7th November, Aldgate, £25   Being able to speak honestly and truthfully are the foundations of good relationships (with yourself, partners, friends, family, colleagues, everyone). Yet we often find it hard to do. Join us for an evening exploring this theme, learn to speak your truth, leave feeling more relaxed, alive and liberated.

7th November, Aldgate, £25

Being able to speak honestly and truthfully are the foundations of good relationships (with yourself, partners, friends, family, colleagues, everyone). Yet we often find it hard to do. Join us for an evening exploring this theme, learn to speak your truth, leave feeling more relaxed, alive and liberated.

  28 November, Aldgate, £25   Touch is the first sense we develop as children, but for most adults touch outside of our romantic relationships is deeply stigmatised. We know touch has mental and physical benefits including reducing levels of stress hormones, alleviating depression and strengthening the immune system. Join us for an evening exploring consensual touch with practices and games based on the wheel of consent.  Please note that physical touch is  completely optional , you can come and spend the whole evening without touching anyone if you wish.

28 November, Aldgate, £25

Touch is the first sense we develop as children, but for most adults touch outside of our romantic relationships is deeply stigmatised. We know touch has mental and physical benefits including reducing levels of stress hormones, alleviating depression and strengthening the immune system. Join us for an evening exploring consensual touch with practices and games based on the wheel of consent.

Please note that physical touch is completely optional, you can come and spend the whole evening without touching anyone if you wish.

 


About Togetherness


Togetherness is a global movement that helps people to build deeper connections with themselves, their passions and everyone in their life, through live experiences and our international community.

About Adam


Adam is an intimacy expert who founded Shhh Dating, the world’s first non-verbal speed dating company in 2012. It has been written about across the world, from Japan to the USA and is celebrated as London’s favourite alternative dating night. In 2017 he founded Togetherness, a festival dedicated to making ‘intimacy bigger than skyscrapers’. Adam continues to advocate for richer connection between people and to lead intimacy retreats which are known for their playfulness, accessibility and depth.